Category: Personal

Being Authentic

Being Authentic

This is the forested area behind our house. It’s the part of our property that the creek runs through. It’s where I go when I need peace and calm and to escape from the world for a little bit. If you’ve been reading this blog 

Friday Roundup #20

Friday Roundup #20

Y’all, it’s Friday and I’m ready for the weekend. This has been one of those weeks where the weather can’t make up its mind, work has been relentless, and I’ve been coming home too tired to do much of anything except exist on the sofa. 

What We Owe: Black Southern Foodways and the History We Need to Know

What We Owe: Black Southern Foodways and the History We Need to Know

This is the first in what will be an ongoing series called Food is Political. I thought it was appropriate that this first post come during Black History Month and gives me a chance to talk about attribution, appropriation, and giving credit where it’s due 

The Optimist: The Best Seafood in Atlanta

The Optimist: The Best Seafood in Atlanta

In July 2019, I took Zach to The Optimist for his birthday. It was our first time there, and I’m just going to say it up front: it’s the best seafood we’ve had anywhere. Better than St. Simons. Better than the coast. Better than a 

Friday Roundup #19 (On Saturday, Because This Month)

Friday Roundup #19 (On Saturday, Because This Month)

It’s the end of January and already this month has been a heck of a year, hasn’t it? I completely forgot the Friday Roundup yesterday. So we’re doing it on Saturday instead. That feels about right for how January 2026 has gone. That’s It. That’s 

Here We Fucking Are Again

Here We Fucking Are Again

I had a whole other post planned for today. A fun one. One talking about our favorite seafood restaurant in Atlanta. It was written, scheduled, and ready to go. And yesterday morning cos-playing ICE thugs murdered another American citizen. This time a man. A nurse. 

Friday Roundup #18

Friday Roundup #18

It’s been a couple of weeks since I did a proper Friday Roundup – last week I skipped it entirely, and the week before that I replaced it with the Renee Good post. And today I got to it late in the day. So here 

What My Mother Taught Me About Cooking (And About Being Fearless)

What My Mother Taught Me About Cooking (And About Being Fearless)

She was fearless in a way I didn’t fully appreciate until I was older …

The New Dietary Guidelines: I Hate Admitting They’re Not Completely Wrong

The New Dietary Guidelines: I Hate Admitting They’re Not Completely Wrong

I’m going to say something that physically pains me to type: the new Dietary Guidelines for Americans 2025-2030, released by the Trump administration under RFK Jr.’s leadership at HHS, are not completely wrong about everything. There. I said it. I hate it. And now I 

Friday Roundup: Renee Nicole Good

Friday Roundup: Renee Nicole Good

I had a whole other post with links and “return from the holidays” thoughts written and ready to go, but last night I scrapped it. Things feel too heavy right now for a lighthearted post. By now most people are aware that on Wednesday morning, 

Welcome to 2026: A Fresh Start

Welcome to 2026: A Fresh Start

Subtitled: State of The Blog & Where I Stand Those of you who have been around for a while know I’ve tried to restart this blog multiple times since it first went quiet around 2014. I’d get excited, plan content, write posts, even publish a 

Farewell to 2025

Farewell to 2025

It’s December 30th, and I’m sitting on the sofa writing this post that I’ll share tomorrow for New Year’s Eve. The tree is still lit, though looking a little bare without presents underneath. There’s a fire going because Georgia has finally given us some actual